The Hug of Roswell
Cathy Skora
When I learned I had cancer for the 2nd time (1st time 20 years ago) I was paralyzed with fear. I was given a choice to go to a private practice or Roswell Park Comprehensive Cancer Center (RPCCC), I called my friend of 60 years, Robin, who said, hands down, go to Roswell.
That was the best decision of my life.
When I pulled up to RPCCC I was scared to death and my anxiety was through the roof. However, as I started my journey I noticed how pleasant the valet service was. Also, entering the building I was taken by the beautiful high ceilings and angled architecture, all viewed while lovely music came from the grand piano in the lobby. I was offered free coffee and parking passes by the volunteers in the lobby. As I waited for my appointment I noted amazing artwork at every turn.
Throughout the many appointments with various departments I found in each the kindest people from receptionists to cleaners to all of the medical staff. Roswell Park Comprehensive Cancer Center has heart and the best of humanity is evidenced at every turn.
The Comprehensive in Roswell Park's name is spot on. Its beautiful artwork, live music, and architecture assisted me in transcending my fears and staying grounded so that I could focus on healing. The state of the art medical services and skilled surgeons coupled with medical staff who delivered their patient care with love made it easy to have faith as I turned myself over without doubt or hesitation to the broad scope of healing offered at RPCCC.
There is something sacred about having an unwavering, profound faith in a surgical team when my life was about to be turned over to the team for a major surgical procedure. Through many pre-surgical appointments my faith grew stronger as each person providing medical services treated me with dignity and respect, and I never had the feeling that I was just another number on the schedule.
I am a retired teacher and was very much an advocate of whole student learning that starts with creating an atmosphere of connection and belonging in order
for students and teachers to thrive. My experiences throughout my journey at Roswell Park Comprehensive Cancer Center fit this bill. All of my communications took into account of treating me as a whole person, not just as a patient.
The nursing care while I was in the hospital was very special and another example of care that is focused on the whole person. In reflection, I am extremely moved by the dedication and commitment of the nursing staff who made me feel so fully cared for. The first night after surgery is a bit hazy, but I do remember being provided with heated blankets and around-the-clock concern and compassion. (Remember to thank your nurse friends and colleagues for their razor sharp focus as they deliver patient care with love.)
There is an all-about-the-patient culture at Roswell Park filled with genuine caring, compassion,and professionalism. Kudos to everyone involved in creating this amazing culture. Because of this culture my journey with cancer the second time around had a soft edge around it thatmade me feel like I was getting a big hug.
And you know what: it the best hug I ever had in my life.
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